Erotic shibari doesn't have to be complicated. Nor is it limited to a fetish for ropes or the act of tying and being tied.
It is a way of guiding, stimulating and achieving desire.
The mind and body play a central role, honesty is essential. Ropes are just a tool.
Erotic shibari is rooted in sexual desire, not love. Confusing these concepts and approaching shibari from a romantic perspective is a dangerous mistake.
It's very important to distinguish between sharing an erotic experience and using sex as a means of relationship building, as this can lead to sacrificing individual desire for the sake of the relationship.