"Shibari" has no official definition. It is a relatively new and fluid concept that is evolving
Almost every practitioner creates their own definition, which, in many ways, is a good thing—as long as that definition is not used to justify abusive behavior.
In order to establish a clear framework and understand what we mean when we talk about shibari, we’ll use the following definition as a reference:
Shibari is the erotic art of Japanese bondage.
Art:
When referring to the "art" of shibari, the word jutsu is used.
This means "art", but in the sense of "a set of techniques proven over time", as in martial arts or arts and crafts.
This has nothing to do with the fine arts.
When elements or techniques of shibari are incorporated into an artistic expression (such as performances, photography, or installations), we would call it "artistic shibari."
Shibari is first and foremost a technique that has been tried and tested over time.
Let's remember - there is no magic in shibari.
Everything that happens has a physical explanation and must be handled with the right techniques**.
Erotic:
To define it as erotic means that it is an expression of an individual's sexuality.
Just as no two people are the same, no two erotic expressions are the same.
Bondage:
Bondage is the act of restricting - restricting movement and behaviour.
And that is the essence of shibari: restriction. Without restriction, there is no shibari.
Japanese:
Shibari comes from Japan.
Its roots are Japanese—not just in the techniques used, but also in its aesthetic, its approach to eroticism, and the mindset that underpins its conscious practice.
We are not Japanese, and you don’t need to be an expert in their culture to practice shibari.
However, it is important to make an effort to understand their way of thinking and to respect cultural differences.